Dating Doesn't Need to be Exhausting

In this webinar, you'll:

  • Understand why dating feels as hard as it does (it's not you)

  • Learn the three pillars of dating from the inside out: Intention, Clarity, and Integration

  • Walk away with at least one reframe you can use immediately

  • Live Virtual Workshop

  • Thur, March 19th, 2026

  • 7-8 PM EST

What I Keep Hearing

If dating leaves you feeling exhausted, confused, fed up, or like you’re doing it wrong, you’re not alone.

If this sounds familiar, it can leave you feeling:

  • Exhausted and discouraged

  • Questioning your own judgment

  • Wondering if you're the problem

  • Stuck cycling between hope and burnout

Most dating distress isn’t because you’re doing something wrong or not trying hard enough. It’s what happens when you don’t have a clear internal compass, you keep repeating patterns you were never taught to notice, and modern dating prioritizes speed over real connection.

Dating from the Inside Out will introduce a different way to date.

The Real Problem

Modern dating didn't break because people got worse. It shifted because the systems around dating changed faster than most of us learned how to navigate them.That leaves people:

  • Strategizing without really understanding themselves

  • Gaining insight without changing how they show up

  • "Knowing better" but still feeling stuck

The Connection Blueprint takes a different approach. It's a way of understanding how your values, your patterns and the realities of modern dating interact in real time.And when those pieces start to make sense together, dating can shift from chaos to choice.

Three Pillars of Connection

These pillars are not meant to be done in a straight line, life doesn't work like that. They work all together. They overlap and weave into each other as dating unfolds. Helping you to build confidence, self-awareness, and deeper insight along the way.

01

Intention

Orientation, Values & Desire

"Why am I dating, and what am I actually oriented toward?"

Get clear on what actually matters to you, beyond pressure, fear, or urgency. Learn to separate what you genuinely want from what you think you’re supposed to want, and shift from reactive dating to intentional choice.

  • Name your values without relying on 'shoulds.'

  • Learn the difference between real desire and fear-based urgency

  • Get curious about what actually excites you and feels meaningful

02

Clarity

Patterns, Perception & Awareness

"What are the reasons behind these dating patterns I keep repeating"

Learn how you actually show up in connection. Understand your patterns, triggers, and protective habits with curiosity rather than self blame.

  • Identify relational patterns and what you're trying to protect

  • Learn the difference between attraction and activation

  • Reality check stories, projections, and fantasies as they arise

03

Integration

Aligned Action in the Real World

"How does this all work into how I actually date?"

Bring what you know into real life dating. Learn how to navigate apps, pacing, uncertainty, and too many options while staying grounded and aligned.

  • Translate values into real behavior

  • Align communication, pacing and boundaries

  • Repair quickly when misalignment occurs

The Origin Story

Hi, I'm Jessica Furtado, LCSW

Gennew, Inc.

As a therapist working with both couples and individuals, I started noticing the same conflicts and patterns showing up again and again. I created The Connection Blueprint after seeing these struggles repeat not only in my clinical work, but in my own dating experiences as well.The goal was never to teach people how to “do dating right,” but to offer a grounded way of understanding the why behind wanting connection — and the what behind the patterns that may be getting in the way.The focus is on staying anchored in yourself while building relationships that actually align with what you want.

Dating From The Inside Out

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Thank you

Your interest in joining Dating From the Inside Out has been received. Be on the lookout for an email with information on how to complete registration and payment.Still have questions? Click the link below to reach out.

Do I need to be actively dating to join?

No. You don’t need to be actively dating to start. Some people join while dating, others join to reset patterns, gain clarity, or prepare before putting themselves back out there. The work meets you where you are.

What if I miss a session?

Hey, life happens. It's ok if you need to miss one. Reach out if you want to do a review or to get access to the materials from the session you missed. You can jump back in at any time.

Do you accept insurance?

Coverage varies by provider and plan, and participants are encouraged to contact our office at (857) 293-5020-with questions about eligibility.

Will this help me find a relationship?

There’s no promise of a relationship outcome. What it will help with is clarity, regulation, self-trust, and decision-making. If and when you date, you do it with intention instead of repeating the same cycles.

What about gender/sexuality/relationship style?

This space is inclusive of all genders, sexual orientations, and relationship styles. The work focuses on patterns, values, attachment, and self-leadership—not prescribing one “right” way to date or relate.

Got questions? Feel free to reach out and we'll do our best to anwser them.
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